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  • Wife should not obey husband in cutting ties with son

    asalamu alaikum wa rahamatulla, sheikh,my elder brother who is 33 years old, had got married against my parents wishes.he got married to a christian women .. seven years ago he fell in love with this women ,he expressed his desire to marry her,but my parents got angry and expressed their denial and said if he marries her then he should leave us. adviced.. More

  • Extent of obedience to parents

    Asalamu alaykum, If my parents tell me not to stay up at night and to always wake up at 9.00 in the morning, do I have to obey them. Also do the parents have a right to only allow me to use my phone for an hour a day or is it my choice. Also am I allowed to go on any (not haram) sites or only the ones my parents allow me to. I know its important to.. More

  • She is suspicious of her husband because he keeps bad company at work

    AoA respected panel.my problem is thatIhave become very negative minded.I love my husband and he loves me too.but from a past few months I have become suspicious about him.I know he is a man with a strong character.he prays 5 times a day MashaAllah.but he knows some people around him in his office that are not so good in character.he doesn't appreciate.. More

  • Patience is recommended in the face of verbal abuse from relatives

    Asalam Alaykum My brother and I are on very bad terms. He is being very judgemental and constantly insists on hurting my feelings by sterotyping me. For example he says you are like so and so (negative things). Then he claims that he is saying that for my own good. Also my mother always sides with him. Now it is also ruining my relationship with her... More

  • The father conducts daughter's marriage contract even if he is immoral

    My sister is looking to get married but I am unsure about who should act as her wali. My father is alive but, he has committed many heinous sins like drinking alcohol, taking drugs, committing adultery etc. He continually slanders my mothers character even though she is a chaste woman I think he should not be allowed to act as wali as by slandering.. More

  • His father deprives him and spends lavishly on his parents

    Salaam. regarding parent-child relation. I have a bad relationship with my father regarding his unfair treatment of his children. He sends so much money to his parents abroad (We live in western country) that they live in extravagance and waste, using facilities that the general population cannot afford e.g. a large mansion, car, motorbikes, junk food.. More

  • Her husband prevents her from cleaning the mosque

    asalaam alaikum sheikh am I allowed to clean the masjid even if my husband told me not to I have a 20 month old im just looking to earn thawab. the reason he refuses is because if I have to use chemicals to clean bathroom. but I say that I use chemicals here at home aswel so why I cannot clean the masjid?. I even told him that I will use just soap instead.. More

  • His wife mistreats his mother who also happens to be her maternal aunt

    i done marriage in 2001 with khala daughter . she is elder then me 4 years. her mother is died. i am living in jeddah with mother and wife . i have three daughters . my father also died . my question is this she hate my mother . because before marriage she think that some family problem create from my mother. therefore she hate her. i told her respect.. More

  • She dislikes the husband her father chose for her

    Assalamualaikum I am in a big dillema here. My parents forced me to marry a guy I did not like and didn't feel like talking to. I tried to tell them from first itself I don't like the guy but they didn't take heed. Saying am childish even though am 28 years old. I waited for this long because in my country most of the people are mushriq and they ask.. More

  • Not obligatory to obey aunts and uncles or their children

    Assalamu alykum sir, I am 17 yrs old and my cousin big brother is about 21 yrs old we both used to play cricket on the roof and sometimes ball falls down by the hit of the bat. the one who hits the ball has to bring the ball from the ground. now when my big cousin brother hit the ball and it goes down he use to ask me to bring the ball. is this correct.. More

  • His mother dislikes his going to the mosque

    Salamu Aleikum Wa Rahmatullahi Barakatu Ive been really having a very stressful life from my mom.The thing is i recently gotten the taste of iman (i was previously ignorant wasnt religious) and i happen to love going to to the mosque and clearing my thoughts and ive just heard that if u love going to the mosque ull be under the shades of Allah's mercy.. More

  • Offering presents to one's mother during times of debt and other financial obligations

    I have a friend who is in debt quite a bit and him mom keeps asking him for money and he continues to send her money and gifts. His mom does not really need all that and her husband works. My friends wife and him argue a lot because of this issue with him mom. What is your suggestion? To continue to give or stop?? May Allah reward you .. More

  • Parents are not to be obeyed concerning divorcing one's good spouse

    Assalamalikum I married to my sister husband sister(brother in law's sister).my sister doesnt want to live with her husband as he mistreat her.she feels that he gives importance to his parents more than her.she also feels that his parents teach him something with this he start misbehaving with her.They were blessed with baby boy since 4 months he didnt.. More

  • He felt relieved to hear the news of his chronically sick mother's death

    aoa sir my name is syed jamal anwar and my mother name is nisar fatima, she died at 23rd may 2013, since that day i am in deep trouble, when my mother was dying dr called me and said me that ur mother is dying and there is no chance that she will survive, as I heard that, I started to weep, I have a very strange feeling, my feeling is that it is good.. More

  • Man prevents wife from contacting her mother whom he accuses of Zina

    I have a problem with my brother in law from time to time threatens my sister with divorce if she talks to her own mother. My brother in law sometimes accuses my mother with solicited sexual relationship with men with out any proof what so ever. This has been going on long enough and I tried to ignore it. Im really fed up please giving me a ruling on.. More