Assalamu Alaikum. UK revert here. Husband has Hanafi background, but we want a Salafi fatwa to reconcile. Under intense pressure from me, he said talaq 3 times in one breath. He had zero intention to divorce me and wants to save our marriage. Crucially, this happened right after intimacy, and we just confirmed I am pregnant from that intimacy. Does.. More
We have been married for 30 years. There is hardly any intimacy between us for many years now. We only have it when she feels like. usually, she is always either tired or sleepy, thus refusing intimacy. I have tried to talk to her at various occasions, but it did not make a difference. I end up masturbating at times, at times she would let me do it.. More
I want to marry a guy his family is fully into this. But my father and elder brother is not willing for this they rejected everything without any sharai reason. Even thay guy is practicing Muslim and financially stable he dont commit shirk or biddah. Still my father and brother are not even listening to them for my proposal . What would you say about.. More
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته what is the islamic ruling on a husband that hides his matters from the wife eg. what he does, where he goes, who he talks to, but expects the wife to tell him everything including going through her phone, telling him the private matters of other people etc. It should be kept in mind that the.. More
My husband divorced me more than 3 times per occasions and it happened more than 5 times he said in anger and fight, but I am concerned if I am divorced or not. He said in clear words as I am divorcing you, once he even took his and mine name and included in divorce. We reconciled every time. Now I am concerned if we can reconcile again or divorce is.. More
I am a 24-year-old woman who has completed my graduation. My parents have long been trying to arrange my marriage. For the past two years, I have been in a relationship, but my family rejected him due to his job. Now they are forcing me to marry someone I do not like, despite my clear refusal. He's working in a bank.If this marriage happens without.. More
6 years ago (me 16), I met a boy from another country over the internet. We were in contact via text and audio calls for a long time. We never had video calls, nor have we ever met in person.We exchanged sex messages and pictures ( not nudes) and used to address each other as husband and wife.I have a vague memory—though I am not certain—of whether.. More
My parents wish that I go to abroad and settle thereby with my spouse they are searching a guy if this kind who will settle abroad but I don't want to live my life in a foreign country but they are not listening to me instead they think that I'm becoming disrectful and admant and I'm a bad child it is as if I can't have an opinion regarding my own.. More
Assalamu 'alaykum I'm a bit confused about free mixing. What exactly counts as speaking out of necessity? When I speak with girls at my university, I often wonder if it's really necessary. Plus, it's tough to to marry a girl you want without spending time together, even if it's just in public and without touching, since fathers might not understand.. More
My wife and I celebrated our Nikah on December 25 last year. Since I met her, we have always had arguments about the way she dresses, I think too revealing. The arguments are continuing even after the Nikah. The latest was yesterday at Ikea, where she came dressed in a shirt that showed her bra strap. I asked her, kindly, just to pull up her strap,.. More
Asalaamu aleikum,I am a 63-year old revert Muslima, divorced with grown children. I have gotten to know a pious, kindhearted, intelligent, diligent, and honest man who wants to marry me. I live in a Western country and he is an asylum seeker here. His circumstances are unclear, but I do not need financial support. However, he is 30 years younger than.. More
Assalamu’alaykum,My mother doesn’t wear hijab and often travels far alone. She wants to visit my brother who lives far. Since she doesn’t wear hijab I thought maybe in general being with her in public would be counted as a sin. But at the same time if I let her travel far alone would that be a sin also? I don’t want to go all the time she travels.. More
Assalamu Alaikum. My husband since the beginning of marriage consistently neglects his duties and uses religion to dismiss my suffering. I was the sole provider, even through a difficult pregnancy. During pregnancy (C-section) and postpartum, I experienced severe physical, emotional, and spiritual harm, with no support or care. I feel unsafe and unprotected... More