Had intercourse without proper marriage
18-5-2006 | IslamWeb
Question:
Asalam O Alaikum
Im a girl from karachi, pakistan and iam in sever tension. i will be really greatful if you kindly consider my request and reply me as soon as possible.
Once me and my cousin were alone in the house. he wants to marry me. we wanted me physically and i denied so he said that we can get married in the room. so he asked me three times that do i accept him as my husband and i said yes and then he said that we are now husband and wife and we had intrcourse.but my mind is not satisfied.
he said that in a book HISTORY OF ISLAMIC JUDICIAL it says that nikkah in such circumstances when a couple is about too committ a sin then they can do the nikkah themselves. is this true ???
he even said that he consulted some Mufti and he said that its proper nikkah.
my parents want me to marry some where else. kindly tell me, that nikkah took place or not ??? and if that nikkah took place and i don't want that so will that guy has to divorce me ????
Please help me. im in great tension. please tell me what islam and Quran says about this ???
i will b very greatful , kindly reply me as soon as possible.
waiting for your reply, desperately
Regards and wishesA Girl
Answer:
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. We ask Allaah to exalt his mention as well as that of his family and all his companions.
What you did is nothing but Zina (fornication) in which a man and a woman both agree to satisfy their desires secretly.
A valid marriage should meet some conditions such as getting married with the consent of guardian, the presence of two witnesses, fixing bridal money and it should be in public. See Fataawa: 83629 and 81385.
So, you should sincerely repent from this grave sin. You may marry any religious man after repentance. Moreover, you should conceal your sin and should not inform any one about it before or after marriage as we mentioned in Fatwa: 83058.
Allaah Knows best.